Here’s this week’s reflection. I hope it resonates with you and ask that, if you enjoyed, please comment and share on your social media. Heartfelt thanks for all your support!
Keeping the light on for you,
Carol
As I honor the women in my history this month, my paternal Grandmother Ruthie’s spirit remains especially strong. She lived just down the driveway from us in a small house that was the safe haven my brothers would “run away to,” toting suitcases and trusted stuffed animals, when parental rules were too stifling.
I too would visit frequently but not under such duress. Grandma and I would bake, watch Lawrence Welk together, listen to Montovani and his Orchestra on the Magnavox, or have an occasional sleepover. Her Downy-scented clothing and the floral notes of Camay facial soap in her bathroom are my earliest experiences with aromatherapy. Above all, Grandma offered love and, in spite of her mild annoyance with Type 2 diabetes, treats in abundance.
Since I was the last kid in line and now in school, Mom started working outside the house, relying on Grandma to help out periodically with meals. “Mother Boggs,” as Mom affectionately called her, frequently strolled over to our place, dutch oven in hand, with one of our favorites: macaroni and beef. Humble fare, the combination of elbow macaroni, ground beef, diced tomatoes and other goodies, all mixed and slowly simmered, was a gastronomic delight. Because Grandma knew how to season things just right, and Mom did not have to cook after a long day, we all savored every bite.
My brothers do not remember this specific concoction, but it was in weekly rotation when I was still at home. The boys were older, and either working or heavily involved in Scouts with Dad. I, on the other hand, was free to hang out with Grandma and learn a few farm galley skills along the way.
Grandma eventually passed, taking her coveted macaroni and beef recipe with her to the grave. Hopeful that Mom had written down at least a few of Ruthie’s pearls, I discovered this was sadly not the case. In Mom’s defense, she was busy and without the fondness for culinary creation that Grandma had possessed. Compelled to keep the tradition alive, I set out to preserve Ruthie’s legacy and soldier on in the scullery.
And so it was, some years later, with a hankering for that childhood macaroni and beef, that I embarked on a search for a similar prescription. But aside from a few things Mom did remember – that Grandma used stewed tomatoes, a bit of bacon, and some green pepper – it was anyone’s guess. My husband had also eaten a similar dish from his grandmother called “slumgullion” or “goulash.” The unappealing titles notwithstanding, it seemed everyone back in the day had their own iteration of this belly-filling mealtime staple. In the interest of historical accuracy, I perused old cookbooks and online resources. A church tome finally yielded a “noodle dish” that seemed the closest version and I took full liberty from there.
I am happy to report, that after considerable tweaking, the taste from my memory has been serendipitously reproduced. A single bite whisks me back to when Grandma would traverse the gravel from her home to ours, bearing the fruits of her labor in the interest of sustenance, support, and love. This dish also garners the same excitement in my family as it did for us during my childhood. Lifting a lid to reveal its presence on the stove sends my husband and daughters scrambling for bowls.
I still have my Grandmother’s familiar dutch oven, but its pitted interior from heavy use precludes contemporary service. It now happily provides visual joy as an endearing vessel serving up seasonal candles.
During this month of motherhood, I offer you my newfangled iteration of Grandma’s classic. Feel free to make it your own, and remember: this is comfort food, not haute cuisine, best served while lounging on the couch in front of a nice fire or a good movie. I have no doubt that sharing this recipe makes Grandma Ruthie smile. May it make you smile, too. At the very least, I hope this forkful of solace reminds you of some of the accomplished kitchen mavens of your past.
Happy (Belated) Mother’s Day & Enjoy!
Grandma Ruthie’s Mac & Beef
2 lb. ground sirloin
4-5 slices bacon – diced
1 can Campbell’s Tomato Soup (not diluted)
½ of the above soup can of water
1 green pepper, diced
1 small onion, diced
28 oz. can stewed tomatoes – slightly drained, not fully.
1 (6 oz.) can tomato paste
1 can whole kernel sweet corn
2 c. (dry) elbow macaroni – cooked and drained
2 Tbsp. brown sugar
2 tsp. salt
Pepper to taste
Brown the beef approximately 2/3 of the way and drain. Add bacon, onion, and green pepper and sauté till the onion and pepper are soft and the bacon is starting to cook well. Add soup, water, tomato paste, slightly drained stewed tomatoes and seasonings. Simmer to finish cooking the bacon and blend flavors, breaking up the tomatoes into smaller pieces. Meanwhile cook and drain pasta. Add pasta to pan, stir to combine, taste and adjust seasonings. Add corn and stir to combine. Serve in bowls topped with whatever variety of shredded cheese you have laying around.
I love this! We grew up with that same comfort. Some called it “hot dish”. I think that’s will be dinner tonight ❤️
Thanks, Heidi! I’m glad you enjoyed the piece!
I wish my grandmother had written down her special recipes, so many great memories! I applaud your re-creation of Grandma Ruthie’s Mac & Beef – I have already shared it with my daughter so she can add it to her list of family meals. Thank you Carol!
Thanks, Kirstin! And thank you for sharing the recipe!
Hi Carol, I loved to read your story! I remember that house (i think) as I was very young. For some reason I recall a painting in that house where the eyes in the painting appeared to follow you around the room. I could be dreaming of things.. I am going to cook the recipe soon. I’m the cook I the family as my Mom was. My grandmother was not a good cook but she made great sugar cookies which Linda has that recipe. Hope all is well!! Jamie Baker
Thank you Jamie!! I hope you like the recipe – it’s nothing fancy but it’s good for whatever ails ya! I don’t remember the picture you speak of; it may have been gone by the time I came along? Glad you enjoyed the story!
I read every one of your writings but don’t often comment. We didn’t eat this at home but at times people brought it to church dinners. I will be trying it soon
Thank you, Mimi! I so hope you enjoy it!
Loved this culinary memory of “Grandma Boggs” as we lovingly called her. What a wonderful and kind woman, she was so welcoming to all of us. A great memory. I can just imagine you baking with her, and watching Lawrence Welk together! I love that you found ingredients and a close recipe in a church cookbook, she may have published hers back then in her church’s version. My mother made a type of the beef casserole as well, which I loved. Talk about comfort food. Your writing allows me to visualize her again, and to hear her voice.
Thank you, Linda! I’m so happy it brought forth wonderful memories!