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Keeping the light on for you,
Carol
My fingers caress the bespoke covering’s coarse weave and silky crossed stitches. Holding another generation in my hands and heart, I gently lay the tablecloth in place. Many a vivacious conversation has obliged the various underlayments now in my possession, glorious tales spun into the thread count of history.
My ancestors were much more formal, whereas my events offer a contemporary vibe to be absorbed within the folds of perpetuity. My collection of old linens are kept in regular rotation, seasonless belles, gracing both casual and more refined affairs. The fragile appearance belies tight tapestry and longevity. Now objets d’art, these cloths were made to outlive their original generation.
As grateful heiress and custodian, I happily ensure the legacy endures. Snubbing the disposable nature of current trends, gems bequeathed in love hold far greater importance than anything I could ever purchase. Despite age, they are easy to care for and even easier to adore. These linen sisters are the ladies I want to party with, and I delight in being privy to the manners and tablescapes of my hostessing lineage.
The imperfect warp and weft of the heirloom fibers is enchanting to me, and the flaxen color a universal base on which to build new memories. From gossamer translucence to heavier slubs, my milled madams cover it all.
The glow of candlelight enhances their complexion, the subtle illumination softening the years and adding to their comfortable elegance. Regardless of toppings, all they ask for is to be surrounded by good company and the occasional clink of crystal.
It’s not just tablecloths in this long line of loveliness. A particularly dainty handkerchief has been carried (so far) by two generations of brides. This delicate “something old” stands ready to grace another nuptial hand or lovingly wrap the stems of a bouquet. These feminine sudaria in my display case are a lively bunch, chattering forth via color, pattern, and detail. Despite diminutive stature, they coax vivid memories to bloom in discreet places.
Also petite, a collection of doilies flutters across my dresser, calling attention to each keepsake placed on top. In contrast to the dark wood, these circles of light bring my treasures to life and honor the memories of the women who crafted them.
Regardless of size or use — from banquet to bed to body — the frills vary from piece to piece and remind me of the unending patience required for their artistry. Intricate bobbin lace nods to a penchant for detail and precision. Hand-crocheted edging, cutwork, and embroidery hail from an era where time was prioritized for embellishing even the most utilitarian textiles. Nothing escaped the hands of prior domestic mavens who adorned aprons, dish towels, and pillowcases made from the ancient and common fabric.
Some of my most beautiful specimens have indeed come from family, although antique shops and estate sales have yielded serendipitous finds as well. Understanding my romantic nature, dear friends have forwarded items my way, knowing such finery will get the proper attention under my watch.
Smoothing a coverlet or tablecloth into position allows me the privilege of feeling its mood and listening to its prose. Unable to escape the whispers that beckon, I will always lend an ear and touch the past and honor their stories.
Historical soulful gifts will continue to drape my soirees, blending their unique narrative into mine, one stitch at a time.
A lovely and enchanting musing on the “thread counts of history.” I love how deeply you listen to the murmurings of these delicate objects and, through your attention and detail, allow us to hear them as well! Thank you!
Thank you Fred!